BlueGuitarristIf you want to know if you will marry in 2008 no one here can say "yes you will" or " no you wont" cause you have your free will and itīs you who has to know if you found the one you think its gonna make you happy and itīs right for you.
Nevertheless,here in LL it has a lot of threads relating to that issue,and Friend in Spirit kindly directed you into them - in a quick note,itīs probable that a person marries or think to commit serious when in his/her progressed chart,the Transit Moon is passing through the 7th house
Relating to the girl you talked about...you are a Libra and you must be really into love arent you?
Thereīs one thing i disagree with you : Love isnt equal to everyone in any way you know...we all have our issues and things to work out and if a person has doubts,that doenst mean we dont love the other or that isnt the right one for us...it simply means that there are no certainties in life. First we must work on us inside and then embrace the challenge to love and be loved.
Love is only perfect in its imperfectness - the right moment to embrace it will come and while not,we can simply meditate on what we want and trullt feels what makes us happy.
Thereīs always the moment when you think : im ready and this is it!
Read this poem of Gibran:to me he talks the Truth ive always looked for.
Meditate on that and see if the girl appears in your heart as being the Truth of your heart
" Then said Almitra, "Speak to us of Love."
And he raised his head and looked upon the people, and there fell a stillness upon them. And with a great voice he said:
When love beckons to you follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.
For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.
Like sheaves of corn he gathers you unto himself.
He threshes you to make you naked.
He sifts you to free you from your husks.
He grinds you to whiteness.
He kneads you until you are pliant;
And then he assigns you to his sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for God's sacred feast.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.
But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.
When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, I am in the heart of God."
And think not you can direct the course of love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
Love has no other desire but to fulfil itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.
To know the pain of too much tenderness.
To be wounded by your own understanding of love;
And to bleed willingly and joyfully.
To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;
To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;
To return home at eventide with gratitude;
And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips."
http://www.kahlil.org/prophet-2.html
- in that site thereīs also Love Letters-trully insightfull